by Martijn de Zee,
Guest writer, In5D.com
Sometimes the extreme is expected of your ability to trust in the universe. If we do, we pass the test as in an exam. Although some periods of difficulties can be karmic, then we must endure the time without be able to escape it. Whatever you try to get out of the situation, it won’t get better and sometimes even get worse. Patience is needed and faith that all is going according to a divine plan.
As a child, we celebrated Sinterklaas, a Dutch version of Santa Claus, where family members take turns picking a present out of a big bag. For some time I didn’t receive anything and I saw how others did get their gifts. Photos of that particular evening, show a very unhappy expression on my face. I felt like I did not matter, and was jealous of other family members who were provided with presents. But at the end of the evening, almost all presents were for me and I had already gotten a lot in the beginning. Why do I tell this anecdote? Well, many years later, I was in a situation that was very difficult for me. I tried to believe every situation is neutral and that we are the ones that give a meaning to it.
Over time, however, I became angry and frustrated because I did not get what I wanted. One day, suddenly, I saw the image appear in my mind, of me as the young kid, being unthankful and impatience.I immediately realized the intention of this memory that was projected in my mind. I had to have patience and confidence, because after all, everything would be fine.I was put to a hold by my higher self, because I was wandering on paths where I had no business. Namely, those of low vibrations. So, I immediately became aware of my own responsibility and realized that the situations could not affect me as long as I kept my vibrations high. Now, I like to go fast forward in time and show what happens if you stay in higher vibes and trust in a positive outcome.
Many gifts were given at the end of this process, of course, in a different form. For example, I met people who brought me further to my goal. I received an offer from an unexpected source, where I gained experience and it worked out good financially. I could give many other examples.
The frustrations are the result of the fact that your plan is not the same plan as that of the universe. But the universe knows better than you and knows how to get the most out of yourself. These are often situations you have not requested yourself. Ultimately, this is a maturation process for the future, so we are better equipped to face new challenges that will come your way. In other words, frustrations arise from the fact that you do not know the infinite possibilities that are there to make you feel better. The universe has this knowledge and opposing to this only makes you feel more frustrated. Surrender and trust are the best options, if you do not have the answers in that particular moment.
About the author: My name is Martijn de Zee and I was born in The Netherlands on January 31st 1975. During my lifetime I have had several experiences that challenged my belief systems. There were always synchronicities on my way that brought me to newer levels of understanding. I am currently residing in Mexico where I met my mentor who gave me a new perspective about the universe. She also told that I was chosen to write a book, which I am working on right now. Everything came to me in he right moment. ( the student is ready, when the teacher arrives ) Nowadays, I am helping people to find answers and guide them through difficult processes, so I consider myself as a lifecoach/mentor, but I will always remain a student myself.