The Game Ends When There Is Only One Player
by Nicky Hamid,
If you are having ,difficulty, conflict, reaction, hurt or “poor me” feeling in a relationship with another it will not end until you realize that for it to happen and continue, it takes TWO TO PLAY ANY GAME.
It stops when YOU decide to not play any more.
When you decide not play the “you hurt me, or “play fair”, or “I want justice, recognition, respect” etc…, it ends when you can honor your own truth enough to be at home with yourself without any expectations of how others should see you.
The game ends when there is only one player
You STOP PLAYING it and accept that you have created it and now can quickly end it. The others may well reject you, ‘spit’ in your face, stomp their feet, walk off in a huff, but it doesn’t take long for them to get when you are no longer playing out the story as if it really ever had any substance. You have closed the book and will not pick it up to read again.
It is all about you putting YOU first and not some sense of duty, pride or false image of “being loving’ and thus making sacrifices (dishonoring your own Truth) to keep the peace, to be the “nice guy”, or to vindicate your own point of view in the eyes of others.
There can no longer be such foolish and lose-lose situations. Your being, your sense of true lovingness will no longer allow you to get away with it. The heroic journey, the courage to be you without any “need” to be respected or recognized as the “goodie” in the “game”.
I So Love You.
And the magic in this is: The more you move into the authenticity of being, you without concern and tip toeing with others, the more recognition you get. The more others will like being in your presence, the more they will want to share with you.
If you are not putting your self-defense out there and are cozy with yourself, what others get is their own feeling of “cozy” when they come near you (even though they may think it is just you). What they do with that feeling is their business not yours. You are in your own version of the Whologram. It all chosen by you and it can be anything you want it to be.
Love yourself FREE.
~Nicky Hamid
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